Each of us, mix-and-match motives and dig in with intentions, until they bear pictures and sow actions, into realities… which call in energies sympatico with these to create states capable of spreading and energizing in any way countering death and disease, and optimizing growth, health, desirability without wrestling or fighting the process by believing against them once the desire is seeded…
Things like laughter, optimism, a craving for blueberry pancakes if not just for the scent, a yawn, cleaning the pot so in the morning it takes nothing to put coffee on… paying it forward to future versions, planning ahead as if not expecting for them to be dead. It’s these kinds of habits that are capable of breeding alliance and friendship instead of worry and crisis. Instead rendering resilience, and multiplies the opposite direction.
Don’t do what you hate little B, or expect it to be good enough for anybody else, see and do and attend to what breeds the state of love and peace, at the very least and see what plants then take root.